About

I'm not a psychologist, qualified marriage counselor, or medical expert. But seriously, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to detect double-dealing, disloyalty or lust driven affairs. I mean even your neighbours can easily spot treachery.

This blog is about my personal relationships, marriage experiences and accumulative research; that I gathered over the years.

Marriage is serious, it's a energy bleeding foot journey; on rocky terrain and it's not a happily ever after. Like any other long distance walk, it requires effort, support, giving and taking. But hey!

There's only so much of you to go around. If you're giving 80% and the significant other is only giving 20%. Then you know that your bleeding to much love.

Marital issues are some of the most difficult problems to identify, manage or overcome.

It can bring the strongest person to their knees. Regrets, guilt, trauma and resentment lives next door to happier.

The internet is one of the first friends and enemies of every offender or victim.

  1. Offenders usually start their betrayal with online searches. Be it for exciting stories, social media hookups or dating sites.
  2. While victims research solutions to marital problems; especially those they feel too ashamed to share with friends.

This is where this blog comes in handy. To either prevent cheaters from destroying their lives, by reminding them of karma or the consequences behind their cruel intentions.

Or comfort and educate victims to respond positively to negative experiences, instead of resorting to self-distructive reactions. That ultimately works against their own healing process.

I've been there, I have the branded cap and skipper at home. She still sleeps next to me. If you're looking for proof to trust my advice.

    I will teach you:

  • How to unearth the truth of every deceitful hookup of a sneaky spouse.
  • Ways to neutralize abusive behaviours in a toxic relationship.
  • how to understand the hidden signals your partner is subconsciously transmitting and much more.

Your first step is to bookmark this webpage. Check back weekly for interesting, educative and real life experience driven content.